Celebrate Your Spirit

 How is your spirit? Notice that I did not ask you how are you doing? I asked you a deeper question about how your spirit is doing which is the status of your soul, essence, inner self, temperament, attitude, mood, character, heart, and force?

 

Often our own spirit is shaken, lost and hurt. The causes of our pain are often directly from our own reaction of other people’s indirect or direct actions and or inactions that we take personally.

 

When family and or friends emotionally hurt you it is time to remove that hurt from inward to outward to out of your own blame and out of your own circle of influence. Those who emotionally hurt you have a deeper pain themselves that they attempt to inflict on you either intentionally or unintentionally. Regardless of why family and or friends inflict their pain on others is a deeper issue that they will need to embark on for their own emotional healing and self-growth through counseling and spiritual teachings.

 

Embarking on emotional healing and a commitment to self-growth takes time and no one is guaranteed to be around to reach the age of hundred. Through the knowledge that our lives are short, as of today (right now at this moment) we have to release any blame we have placed on ourselves because of other people’s actions and or inactions. We are not failures because we are winners when we chose to release blame and become stronger emotionally by first accepting that we deserve emotional wellness and emotional healing! We deserve happiness! We deserve to grow mentally, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and physically through self-love which is unconditional and blameless! Our lives are too short to live otherwise!

 

If no one ever raised your spirits high, gave you confidence to excel, and celebrated your accomplishments, it does not define you as such because only you can define yourself! Just as a person who constantly belittles you and calls you negative and unkind words does not define you because yet again, only you can define yourself! If our own mother, father, sibling or child tells you that you are unworthy or decide to alienate or abandon you, remove the self-blame right now! Again, it is not you but it is those who knowingly or unknowingly inflict their pain of self-doubt and years of emotional damage toward their victims who are the closest to them! Unfortunately, their spirit is lost and in every direction they travel in they disseminate their pain on others to destroy humanity. Yes, misery loves company!  

 

The next time your spirit is low, shaken, lost, and or hurt seek to transform your spirit by removing blame, accepting self-love, believing in our own self-worth, embarking on emotional healing, consenting to self-growth, believing in your own success through confidence, understanding that only you can define who you are through positive affirmations, refusing to become hurt by those who are negative and emotionally detached, and rejecting those who are emotionally damaged away from your circle of influence!

 

Right now, today, celebrate you and accept self-love and well deserved happiness through self-growth, emotional healing and positive affirmations to yourself!!!!

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